Mengumpulkan Backlink Dengan Cepat

Mengumpulkan Backlink Dengan Cepat bisa kita lakukan dengan gratis tanpa biaya. Cara Cepat Menaikkan Pagerank ini sudah banyak dilakukan oleh para blogger2 yang sudah ahli. Gak usah susah2 komentar sana sini. Cukup ikuti panduan ini. Oiaa.. Belum tahu apa itu PageRank? baca dulu gih di om wikipedia

Mengumpulkan Backlink Dengan Cepat adalah dengan copy paste artikel ini dari atas sampai bawah. Tapi sebelum itu bacalah dulu pesan-pesan dibawah ini.

Silahkan pelajari dengan baik lalu anda terapkan dengan benar…. Ada kata bijak yang mengatakan "Honesty is The Best Policy (Kejujuran adalah politik/strategi terbaik)", mari kita buktikan….apakah konsep kejujuran disini dapat kita gunakan untuk menghasilkan traffic dan popularity yang sangat hebat dari sebuah metode rumit para expert webmaster atau pakar SEO..? Saya percaya kita bisa asal metode ini anda terapkan dengan benar…apabila ini di aplikasikan pada web/blog anda sesuai ketentuan maka:

• Blog anda akan kebanjiran traffic pengunjung secara luar biasa hari demi hari, tanpa anda harus repot-repot memikirkan SEO atau capek-capek melakukan promosi keberbagai tempat di dunia online.
• Blog anda juga akan kebanjiran backlink secara signifikan hari demi hari, tanpa perlu repot-repot berburu link keberbagai tempat di dunia internet.

Hal yang harus anda lakukan adalah ikuti langkah-langkah berikut :

1. Buatlah postingan artikel seperti posting saya ini, atau copy-paste artikel ini. Lalu beri Judul sesuka anda (karena itu merupakan SEO buat web/blog anda sendiri).
2. Anda cukup hanya meletakkan Link-Link di bawah ini pada artikel anda tersebut pada blog/web anda.

1. blogger sporting
2. Asma Penyakit
3. Malaria Mosquito
4. automotive cyberspace
5. the spread of Avian influenza
6. That endanger diets
7. healthy beautiful skin
8. keep your health
9. Myths About Sleep
10. healthy without drugs

PERATURAN :

1. Sebelum anda meletakkan Link-Link tersebut ditas ke dalam postingan web/blog anda, harap hapus Link nomor 1 , Sehingga link no 1 hilang dari daftar link dan setiap link anda naikkan 1 level ke atas. Yang tadinya no 2 naik menjadi no 1, yang tadinya no 3 menjadi no 2, yang tadinya no 4 menjadi no 3 dan begitu seterusnya. Setelah itu masukkan Link anda pada urutan Paling bawah ( no 15 ).
2. Ingat!!! Jangan Merubah Urutan daftar link.. Buktikan kejujuran anda.. Karena ini demi keuntungan bersama, kita sesama blogger 
3. Apabila setiap blogger yang ikut dalam metode ini berhasil di duplikasi ole hblogger lain yang akan bergabung, andaikan 5 blogger yang bergabung maka Backlink yang anda dapat adalah Ketika:

Posisi anda 15, jumlah backlink = 1
Posisi 14, jumlah backlink = 5
Posisi 13, jumlah backlink = 25
Posisi 12, jumlah backlink = 125
Posisi 11, jumlah backlink = 625
Posisi 10, jumlah backlink = 3.125
Posisi 9, jumlah backlink = 15.625
Posisi 8, jumlah backlink = 78.125
Posisi 7, jumlah backlink = 390.625
Posisi 6, jumlah backlink = 1.953.125
Posisi 5, jumlah backlink = 9.765.625
Posisi 4, jumlah backlink = 48.828.125
Posisi 3, jumlah backlink = 244.140.625
Posisi 2, jumlah backlink = 1.220.703.125
Posisi 1, jumlah backlink = 6.103.515.625

Dan semua Dari kata kunci yang anda inginkan, bayangkan jika ini bisa berjalan dengan sempurna maka anda akan memperoleh 6.103.515.625 external link yang berasal dari berbagai blog yang anda tidak akan pernah bayangkan sebelumnya. Belum lagi apabila ada pengunjung blog anda dari Link List tersebut diatas maka otomatis anda akan memperoleh traffic ke web/blog anda juga. Ingat!!! Aturuan mainnya, Anda harus memulai dari urutan paling bawah (no 15) sehingga hasil backlink anda bisa Maksimal. Jangan salahkan saya apabila anda tidak mengikuti metode ini dengan benar dan Link anda tiba-tiba berada pada urutan no 1 dan menghilang pada Link daftar. Jadi mulai lah pada urutan paling bawah(no 15). Bisakah Anda melakukan tindakan tidak fair atau tidak jujur dengan menyabotase metode ini, misalkan saja "menghilangkan semua link asal" lalu di isi dengan link web/blog anda sendiri…? ….Bisa, dan metode ini menjadi tidak maksimal. Kejujuran adalah strategi/politik terbaik…..Tapi saya yakin bahwa kita semua tak ingin menjatuhkan kredibilitas diri sendiri dengan melakukan tindakan murahan seperti itu… —- SELESAI —-

Semoga metode ini bisa berjalan sesuai harapan kita bersama. . . ! ! !

Cara Cepat Menaikkan Pagerank mudah bukan? Beri tahu kepada kawan2 blogger yang lain agar pagerank anda naik, naik, dan terus naik

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Warna Merah Siap takut

Warna Merah Siap takut Warna merah selalu diasumsikan sebagai warna yang berani. Tapi bagi pria, warna merah bisa menjadi petanda gairah seksual yang tinggi.

Ketika melihat wanita mengenakan gaun berwarna merah, pria cenderung akan tertarik secara seksual. Mereka menganggap wanita dengan balutan busana merah memiliki daya tarik seksual lebih tinggi dibanding yang berbalut busana warna lain.

"Keterkaitan ini bisa berakar dari fungsi utama biologi kita sebagai manusia," ujar peneliti Universitas Rochester, dikutip YourTango.

Pada penelitian terakhir yang diterbitkan Journal of Experimental Social Psychology, peneliti menunjukkan foto dari wanita yang sama terhadap 25 pria. Foto tersebut menunjukkan wanita yang sama menggunakan kaus berwana merah atau putih. Setelah melihat foto tersebut, mereka ditanya bagaimana model wanita tersebut dalam hubungan asmara.

Menanggapi pertanyaan tersebut, mereka memberikan penilaian daya tarik seksual yang lebih tinggi pada wanita dengan pakaian berwarna merah. Meskipun model yang ada adalah orang yang sama, wanita berpakaian merah tampak menarik secara seksual dan tampak mampu melakukan hal-hal yang "nakal".

Para peneliti melihat hal ini berhubungan dengan interaksi seksual yang terjadi pada monyet. Kulit hewan primata betina ini akan menjadi merah untuk menunjukkan bahwa mereka memasuki masa subur dan siap untuk dikawinkan dengan pejantan.

Tak beda dengan manusia, menurut peneliti, ketika wanita mengenakan pakaian berwarna merah berarti mereka ingin mengatakan maksud terselubung. Karena ketika memasuki masa subur, secara instingtif mereka akan menggunakan pakaian-pakaian yang dapat meningkatkan rasa percaya diri untuk menggoda pria. Dan, warna merah selalu menjadi pilihan wanita untuk tampil percaya diri dan berbeda.

Jadi, melangkahlah percaya diri dengan pakaian berwarna merah untuk mencuri hati pria idaman Anda Warna Merah Siap takut

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Promo Member Alfamart Minimarket Lokal Terbaik Indonesia

Alfamart adalah sebuah minimarket lokal yang memberikan suguhan yang dapat memuaskan pelanggan ketika berkunjung ke minimarket, dengan keramah-tamahan dan kesopanan karyawannya serta sapaan yang menjadi ciri khasnya membuat banyak orang datang ke Alfamart untuk berbelanja kebutuhan sehari-hari dan bulanan. Sehingga tidak aneh Alfamart memiliki member yang setia dan terus bertambah. Adapun pihak Alfamart memberikan promo khusus bagi membernya yang memiliki kartu member Alfamart sehingga membuat pelanggan lebih menyukai berbelanja di minimarket ini. Dengan memiliki kartu anggota maka pelanggan akan mendapatkan promo member Alfamart.

Promo member Alfamart adalah sebuah usaha yang dilakukan oleh perusahaan minimarket ini untuk memanjakan pelanggannya. Pelanggan akan banyak mendapat keuntungan jika memiliki kartu member Alfamart ini, salah satu dari keuntungan yang akan didapatkan oleh pelanggan adalah promo khusus yang ada setiap dua minggu sekali, promo ini akan didapatkan oleh para member Alfamart ketika berbelanja di minimarket Alfamart dan toko serta perusahaan lain yang bekerjasama dengan Alfamart. Dengan kata lain jika anda adalah seorang pemegang kartu member Alfamart maka anda akan mendapatkan promo khusus yaitu berupa potongan harga atau harga spesial jika anda berbelanja di minimarket lokal Alfamart atau perusahaan yang bekerjasama dengan Alfamart. Sehingga tidak dapat diragukan lagi bahwa Promo Member Alfamart sangat berguna bagi pelanggan, dan tidak sedikit orang yang berkata bahwa Alfamart adalah Minimarket lokal terbaik di Indonesia.

Promo Member Alfamart Minimarket Lokal Terbaik Indonesia. Promo Indonesia ini diberikan oleh Alfamart sebagai Minimarket pertama yang mempunyai member terbanyak di Indonesia. Ketika mendengar kata "promo" pasti semua orang tertarik, karena pada setiap kegiatan promo pasti akan ada diskon, hadiah atau sesuatu yang menguntungkan lainnya. Dan kabar gembiranya, Alfamart sebagai minimarket besar Indonesia sedang mengadakan penawaran yang menarik, yaitu Promo Member Alfamart Minimarket Lokal Terbaik Indonesia. Promo Indonesia ini diberikan Alfamart untuk para calon member dan juga member Alfamart.

Minimarket Alfamart yang berdiri sejak tahun 1994 oleh PT. Sumber Alfaria Trijaya Tbk ini yang sekarang sudah memiliki banyak member dan merupakan member terbesar di Minimarket Indonesia. Pertumbuhan  Alfamart di Indonesia sangatlah pesat bak "jamur di musim hujan", terbukti dengan berdirinya cabang-cabang Alfamart yang tidak hanya di kota-kota besar tapi sampai ke pelosok-pelosok kecamatan di seluruh negeri Indonesia.

Alfamart Minimarket Pertama yang memiliki member terbanyak di Indonesia Alfamart Memberikan Motivasi dan Inspirasi serta Inovasi untuk memanjakan membernya. Salah satunya adalah dengan konsisten 2 minggu sekali  memberikan Promo Indonesia khusus untuk Member Alfamart baik untuk berbelanja di Alfamart Minimarket atau pun di merchant-merchant yang banyak bekerja sama dengan Alfamart Minimarket untuk memberikan potongan harga atau harga spesial.

Member Alfamart Adalah sebutan untuk para pelanggan setia Alfamart.Para member Alfamart akan mendapatkan berbagai macam keuntungan dan kejutan special dari Alfamart seperti: HematKu, Kalender Belanja, Specialku dan Hadiahku,serta program ekslusif lainnya. Member Alfamart adalah pelanggan yang memiliki dan bergabung dalam keanggotaan Kartu AKU, A Card Flazz atau Kartu AKU BNI Promo Member Alfamart Minimarket Lokal Terbaik Indonesia

KARTU AKU Promo Member Alfamart Minimarket Lokal Terbaik Indonesia

    Kartu Aku

Adalah kartu member yang pertama kali diluncurkan Alfamart pada tahun 2005. Dengan Kartu AKU, Member akan dapat memperoleh manfaat dan berbagai macam keuntungan serta Promo Indonesia menarik yang tidak dapat diikuti oleh pelanggan lain yang bukan merupakan member Kartu AKU. Kartu AKU berlaku Nasional di Alfamart seluruhIndonesia.

A CARD FINAL Promo Member Alfamart Minimarket Lokal Terbaik Indonesia
    A Card Flazz

Adalah Kartu Member Alfamart yang di luncurkan pada 15 Mei 2010 bekerja sama dengan Flazz BCA, yang selain berfungsi sebagai kartu member juga dapat digunakan sebagai alat pembayaran/transaksi karena A Card Flazz merupakan Kartu Prepaid (kartu non rekening yang dapat menyimpan uang untuk keperluan berbagai transaksi).

A Card Flazz dapat digunakan sebagai alat pembayaran tidak hanya diseluruh outlet Alfamart, Alfamidi ataupun Alfaexpress tetapi juga diseluruh merchant Flazz antara lain restoran, salon, toko buku, parkir, bioskop dan masih banyak lagi. Untuk sementara ini, A Card Flazz berlaku di Jabodetabek,Surabaya

KARTU AKU BNI Promo Member Alfamart Minimarket Lokal Terbaik Indonesia
    Kartu Aku BNI

Merupakan salah satu Kartu Member Alfamart yang di luncurkan pada 1 Januari 2010, merupakan kerjasama antara Alfamart dengan Bank BNI. Kartu AKU BNI merupakan kartu multifungsional, yang selain berfungsi sebagai kartu member, juga berfungsi sebagai alat pembayaran. Pengguna Kartu AKU BNI juga akan mendapatkan berbagai keuntungan dan kejutan spesial dari Alfamart serta tentunya dapat mengikuti program-program eksklusif khusus member di Alfamart. Untuk saat ini, Kartu AKU BNI berlaku di Alfamart Jabodetabek.
8 Keuntungan Member Alfamart

   1. Hematku dan Kalender Belanja
   2. Spesialku dan Hadiahku
   3. Special Big Program for "Member Alfamart"
   4. Redemption For "Member Alfamart"
   5. Member Alfamart" Thematic Promo
   6. Special Treatment for "Member Alfamart" Birthday
   7. Special Event/Activities For "Member Alfamart"
   8. Merchant For "Member Alfamart"

 

Demikianlah penjelasan singkat tentang  Promo Member Alfamart Minimarket Lokal Terbaik Indonesia Semoga dapat bermanfaat dan memberikan pengetahuan Lebih kepada masyarakat agar dapat bergabung menjadi Member Alfamart dan pastikan anda mendapakan keuntungan dan manfaat lebih dari Alfamart Minimarket Lokal Terbaik Indonesia

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Tips Godaan Menjelang Penikahan

Tips Godaan Menjelang Penikahan Kamu belum mengerti mau aku, kalau begini mending kita batal nikah." Kata-kata seperti ini mungkin sering terlontar menjelang detik-detik pernikahan.

Tanggal telah ditetapkan. Gedung, cinderamata, dan katering juga telah disiapkan. Namun, godaan untuk membatalkan semuanya terus mengusik.

Jangan terpancing emosi sesaat. Terus bakar keyakinan dengan mengulang kalimat ini kepada diri sendiri, "Sebuah kehidupan baru menunggu, aku harus menjadikannya indah."

Godaan yang patut diwaspadai menjelang pernikahan, antara lain:

1. Mantan pacar kembali
Sakit hati karena diputus masih terasa. Apalagi jika ia cinta pertama. Godaan ini tentunya akan terasa berat. Rasa untuk kembali, rasa ingin memperbaiki dan menjadi yang terbaik, pasti ingin Anda lakukan.

Tetapi ingatlah, bahwa dia orang yang telah menyakiti hati Anda, dan masa lalu tak pernah kembali. Ingatlah orang-orang yang sudah membuat Anda untuk bangkit.

2. Mendadak "laris"
Banyak pria tampan yang tiba-tiba mengajak jalan, atau tiba-tiba merasa klik dengan teman baru. Meski niatnya hanya sekadar mengenal atau menjallin hubungan sahabat, sebaiknya hindari. "Jangan main api jika tidak ingin terbakar."

3. Kekurangan jadi terlihat
Menjelang detik-detik penrikahan, akan membuat Anda dan pasangan semakin dekat. Sisi negatif pun akan terlihat. Yakinkan diri Anda, apakah sisi negatifnya bisa diterima nantinya, atau justru akan membuat huru hara.

4. Menolak masa lalu
Tak ingin ada rahasia, kalian memutuskan untuk bercerita tentang kejadian di masa lalu. Ternyata keterbukaan dan kejujuran itu mendatangkan masalah. Apalagi jika masa lalunya kelam.

Jika Anda memang serius, gunakanlah keikhlasan untuk menerima dia apa adanya, dan yakin kalau dia telah berubah. "Mantan penjahat itu lebih baik dari pada mantan orang baik."

5. Keuangan terbatas
Mempersiapkan tabungan sebelum menikah itu sangat penting. Berembuklah bersama pasangan tentang tema, gedung atau katering yang akan digunakan. Hindarilah meminjam uang atau utang, karena berpotensi merusak kebahagiaan pascamenikah.

6. Waktu yang singkat
Persiapan pernikahan tidak seperti ujian akhir, yang bisa dikerjakan dengan SKS (Sistem Kebut Semalam). Catatlah semua kebutuhan dan tanggal deadline. Jangan pernah berpikir waktu yang Anda miliki masih panjang.

7. Tiba-tiba ragu
Pernikahan tinggal menghitung hari. Anda mendadak ragu, karena dihantui banyak pertanyaan. Misalnya, apakah ia calon ayah dari anak saya nantinya, apakah saya nantinya akan menghabiskan waktu dengan dia, dan apakah ini pernikahan yang saya impikan.

Carilah semua jawaban itu dengan berbicara pada pasangan Anda. Jangan mencari jawaban sendiri, karena nantinya Anda akan hidup berdua.

8. Mendapatkan pekerjaan impian
Ketika Anda sibuk mempersiapkan pernikahan, datang tawaran pekerjaan baru yang sudah dinanti. Tetapi di pekerjaan baru ini, Anda tidak boleh terikat pernikahan. Tentunya ini menjadi pilihan sulit, karier, atau pernikahan?

9. Sering bertengkar
Menjelang hari H, Anda semakin sering bertengkar. Hal kecil mungkin bisa menjadi besar. Biasanya ini karena kecemasan dan kegugupan menjelang hari H. Kuncinya hanya satu yaitu kesabaran.

10. Orang tua tidak kompak
Biasanya ini dipicu sifat orangtua yang dominan. Keluarga pihak pria menginginkan A, tetapi pihak wanita tidak setuju, ia lebih menyukain B. Anda dan pasangan sebaiknya bersiap-siap untuk hal yang satu ini. Meski terlihat sepele, perbedaan persepsi antar orangtua berpotensi memicu perpecahan.

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Bahaya Garam pada Makanan anda

Bahaya Garam pada Makanan anda Makanan yang mengandung garam selama ini hanya identik dengan makanan asin. Padahal cukup banyak makanan yang sebenarnya berasa manis atau gurih yang menyimpan sodium cukup tinggi.

Menurut data Center for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), roti ternyata menjadi sumber sodium paling tinggi dalam pola makan orang Amerika. Kadar garam yang sama juga ditemukan dari keripik kentang dan pretzel.

Sebagai perbandingan, satu iris (slice) roti mengandung 100-200 miligram, tergantung tipe dan merek roti, sedangkan satu ons keripik kentang mengandung sekitar 120 mg atau lebih sodium.

Sumber sodium lain yang banyak ditemukan pada pola konsumsi orang Amerika antara lain daging olahan, pizza, daging unggas, burger siap saji, sandwich, keju, dan hidangan pasta.

"Roti sebenarnya tidak lebih asin dari makanan lainnya, tapi dikonsumsi cukup sering. Selain itu roti juga menjadi sumber kalori karena dikonsumsi dalam jumlah banyak," kata Mary Cogsweell, dari CDC.

Sementara itu kandungan natrium cukup tinggi yang sering dikonsumsi dalam makanan kita sehari-hari antara lain mi ayam, sosis, mi bakso, mi instan, sop buntut, bahkan donat pun mengandung sodium cukup tinggi. Saus, acar, dan makanan kaleng juga mengandung garam yang tinggi.

Sodium atau natrium berperan penting dalam menjaga keseimbangan cairan dalam tubuh. Selain itu ia juga berfungsi menghantar impuls saraf yang memengaruhi kontraksi dan relaksasi otot.

Jika terlalu banyak natrium dalam darah, volume darah akan meningkat karena natrium menarik dan mengikat air. Akibatnya jantung harus memompa lebih keras untuk mengalirkan darah yang meningkat itu sehingga tekanan pada arteri meningkat.

Terlalu banyak mengonsumsi sodium diketahui akan meningkatkan risiko stroke, gagal jantung, osteoporosis, kanker usus, dan penyakit ginjal.

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High Levels of Early Maternal Affection May Lower Emotional Distress in Adult Offspring

Early nurturing and warmth from mothers can have long-lasting positive effects on the long-term mental health of their offspring into adulthood, according to a new cohort study that evaluated the children at 8 months and at a mean age of 34 years.

"It is striking that a brief observation of level of maternal warmth in infancy is associated with distress in adult offspring 30 years later," write lead study author Joanna Maselko, PhD, assistant professor in the Department of Psychiatry and Behavioral Sciences at Duke University in Durham, North Carolina, and colleagues.

"These provocative findings add to the growing evidence that early childhood helps sets the stage for later life experiences and provide support for the notion that biological 'memories' laid down early may alter psychological and physiological systems and produce latent vulnerabilities or resilience to problems emerging later in adulthood," the investigators add.

"I think it's important to note that this study is about affection and only affection," Dr. Maselko told Medscape Medical News. "We don't say anything about levels of parental involvement, etc. I would not want clinicians to put any more pressure on moms than there already is."

The study was published online July 27 in the Journal of Epidemiology and Community Health.

The Influence of Early Life Experiences

Although past studies have suggested that "the quality of the mother's interaction with a child is a key determinant" of the child's subsequent vulnerability and has implications for their health in adulthood, "there is a dearth of longitudinal data with both objective assessments of nurturing behavior during infancy and sustained follow-up ascertaining the quality of adult functioning," the study authors write.

"We are starting to understand that a significant part of our mental health trajectory in life is influenced by early life experiences, but we don't really understand which experiences are important and how exactly they leave their mark," said Dr. Maselko. "This study is part of the larger area of research trying to decipher what's going on in this regard."

For the study, the investigators evaluated a cohort of 482 participants in the National Collaborative Perinatal Project.

When the children were 8 months of age, the quality of the mother-child interaction was "objectively" observed and rated by a psychologist at the test site and parental socioeconomic status (SES) was recorded.

During follow-up interviews conducted when the children were adults, the Symptom Checklist 90 was used to assess emotional functioning, including the following 4 subscales: distress due to somatization, interpersonal sensitivity, anxiety, and hostility/anger.

More Warmth Equals Less Distress

Results at the 8-month assessment showed that 9.5% of the participants had a low level of mother's affection, 85% had a normal level, and almost 6% had a high level.

Although the strongest association between maternal affection at 8 months and distress as adults was seen with the anxiety subscale, with significant differences found between the low/normal and high affection groups (53.86 vs 46.70 scores; P < .001), significant differences were also found between the groups for general distress scores (55.38 vs 50.39; P < .001). The smallest difference was found for hostility (55.70 vs 52.40; P = .07).

"Across all the symptom subscales, the direction of association was highly consistent; more warmth was associated with less distress," report the study authors.

"We initially expected those with both the low and the very high levels of affection to do worse than those in the middle, consistent with the idea that a superaffectionate mom could be a smothering mom, which could, in turn, be associated with worse outcomes once the child grows up," said Dr. Maselko, "But this is not what we saw."

The investigators also did not find "evidence that mother's affection lies on the path between parental SES and higher offspring distress scores."

Overall, these findings "provide strong support to the assertion that even very early life experiences can influence adult health and emphasize the importance of having a strong nurturing relationship," the study authors write. Therefore, "a combination of strategies which empower families, improve access to high-quality childcare, and provide targeted interventions may improve overall population mental health."

When asked what she'd like to see next in regard to research in this area, Dr. Maselko said an important element would be a focus on understanding "whether there is something special about affection per se that is protective or whether affection is simply a marker for other positive parenting strategies.

"Testing the hypothesis that affection makes children and adults less reactive to stress through an oxytocin pathway is a great next step," she added.

Important Clinical Implications

"I think this study generally confirms the tenants of the attachment theory — that early relationship with a primary caregiver can shape the individual in their personal relationships from cradle to the grave," Mohammadreza Hojat, PhD, research professor of psychiatry and human behavior in the Center for Research in Medical Education and Health Care at Jefferson Medical College in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, told Medscape Medical News.

"Now why this is the case? According to attachment theory, a lovingly responsive mother can serve as a secure base for a child to confidently explore the universe," said Dr. Hojat, who was not involved with this study. "This can contribute to a positive personality profile, including higher self-esteem and better skill at coping with stressful life events."

He said that 1 advantage of this study is its longitudinal nature. "There are currently very few longitudinal studies to test this hypothesis."

Although Dr. Hojat noted that the study also had some shortcomings, including the way in which maternal affection was measured, he found it to be "an important study overall, and its outcomes could have important implications for clinicians.

"It reinforces this attention to the biopsychosocial model of health and illness rather than a biomedical model or paradigm — that there are some other factors that are important to take into consideration for the sake of public health," he concluded.

This study was partially funded by a grant from the National Institutes of Mental Health. The study authors and Dr. Hojat have disclosed reported no relevant financial relationships.

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Plentiful maternal affection in early infancy boosts adult coping skills

 Mums who shower their infants with affection equip them to cope well with life stressors as adults, indicates research published online in the Journal of Epidemiology and Community Health.

Despite growing interest in the role of early life experiences in adult health, most studies have relied on recall; few have tracked participants from childhood to adult life, say the authors.

They base their findings on 482 people, who were part of the US Providence Rhode Island birth cohort of the National Collaborative Perinatal Project.

The quality of their interactions with their mothers at the age of 8 months was objectively rated by a psychologist during routine developmental assessment.

At the end of each session, the psychologist completed an assessment of how well the mother had coped with her child's developmental tests and how she had responded to the child's performance.

The amount of affection and attention she gave to her child was also categorised, with descriptors ranging from "negative" to "extravagant."

Mental health was subsequently assessed in adulthood at the average age of 34, using a validated symptom checklist, which captures both specific elements— such as anxiety and hostility— and general levels of distress.

At the 8 month assessment, one in 10 interactions (46) were characterised by a low level of maternal affection towards the infant. Most (85%; 409) were characterised by normal levels of affection.

The remaining 6% (27) were characterised by very high levels of maternal affection.

When the specific elements of the checklist were analysed, those whose mothers had been observed to be the most affectionate at the 8 month assessment had the lowest levels of anxiety, hostility, and general distress.

There was more than a 7 point difference in anxiety scores between those whose mothers had displayed low/normal levels of affection and those whose mothers had displayed high levels.

And there was more than a 3 point discrepancy in hostility scores and a 5 point difference in overall general distress scores.

This pattern was seen across all the various elements of the symptom checklist: the higher the mother's warmth, the lower the adult's distress.

The authors conclude that their findings back up the assertion that even very early life experiences can influence adult health.

High levels of maternal affection are likely to facilitate secure attachments and bonding, say the authors. This not only lowers distress, but may also enable a child to develop effective life, social, and coping skills, which will stand them in good stead as adults.

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Expressing Love in Children with a kiss

Not all people celebrate Valentine's Day or Valentine's day. But there's nothing wrong with loving celebration sense to reevaluate the extent you, as parents, show love and affection to children. However, the feeling of affection should be disclosed, so that your child understands the parents' love against him.

This is important for pesinetron, Vira Yuniar (29), which recently tested the theater stage with a seasoned poet Remy mbeling Sylado. Women born in the Riau Islands, September 1, 1981, is a word of praise must confess that it provides to both her son, Cut Shalinni (6) and Teuku Prayaa (5).

"I do not celebrate Valentine's special, but my own search for meaning about it. Every day is a time to express affection. Always bring the kids in my practice to be one way. Another way to give a kiss to the children every day to shape my affection as his mother. Bonding is built from the heart to make children feel vulnerable. Children have an instinct to know what love for his parents,

In addition to praise and kisses, Vira also admitted intense build the mother-child bond with her two children. Inviting children while filming is not a new activity for her family. "If possible, take my kids to where I work," he explained. According to Vira, children can learn many things from the environment around him, including his mother's work environment.

Togetherness and express feelings for Vira important for mother-child bond stronger. Sure enough, now that her two children growing older, they do not hesitate to show his feelings. "My second child was suddenly like kissing or ask for kisses. And he was always close to my delight. Habit was wrapped around the hair-wrap when you're near me," Vira describes the behavior of their children. The attitude of children who are not familiar show indulgence. Because recognized Vira, two children grow independently, especially his daughter.

"The kids do not ever depend on others, with the nanny for example. If there was no rush, I prefer with the kids. If need be deposited, I prefer his grandmother to supervise," said Vira.

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Never Bored Bring Love to Children

Psychiatrists from Angsamerah clinic, dr Eka Viora, SpKJ, explaining that love should be expressed in words but also with an attitude. Meaningful expression of love from their parents wrath, because the child will feel loved. The impact is also not only be felt when a child is growing. Habits express and receive love will form the children become individuals who are more sensitive to others and the environment. Included also in the future of children a family.

"The man (adult) that is not easy to express love because he did not have a model that is remembered as a child. So look again at how a man raised as a child. If since childhood, the child does not receive an expression of love from his parents, he will grow into a personal difficult to express love. Parents who are flooding the child with words of love into learning for children to express love, "said Dr. Eka the talk entitled" Expressing Love in Couples and Children "held Compass Female and clinics in Supermal Angsamerah Karawaci , Sunday (2/13/2011) ago.

In addition to words of love like saying "I love you, kid" or "I love you, kid" you can express love in many ways. Dr Eka share how:

1. Always give praise
There is no limit to give a compliment. Praising children constantly not to have negative impacts for children. According to Dr. Eka, parents usually stingy praise the child because they think kids do something that according to ordinary parents, and children have become liabilities. Parents more often criticized, blamed when children do not comply with parental wishes. So, give praise as often as possible to the child, said Dr. Eka.

2. Do a special activity together every day
Create a little of your valuable time, every day, to do special activities with the children. Like the play, listen to your favorite music, favorite television programs children watch, or to cuddle under a warm blanket and cozy.

3. Create a message of love
Make a note contains a declaration of love for the child or message of love. For example by writing the phrase "Mama love you", put the letter magnets on the refrigerator door bearing similar messages, heart-shaped pillow to award child, or make a cake with a heart-shaped pan that read "I Love You".

4. Fill your child kegemari
Expressing love can also be done by meeting the child's favorite. Make a child's favorite dishes, read a favorite book or fairy tale.

5. Give a kiss
Another way of expressing love to the child is with a simple action, kissing her. Give kisses to the kids more often.

6. Give a hug
Hugs and with folded arms of children with a warm, stroking her hair or rub her feet.

7. Give something special
Nothing wrong with giving something special to the children that are out of habit. The form did not have to be good. For example, allow children to watch television longer than usual.

8. Special attention
If a child has a brother or sister, give special attention to him or full for a while.

9. Your Applause meaningful
Give a hand clap bookmark your appreciation to the children when children do something well or according to your wishes.

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Train Child High Not To Exercise

though bearing the name of Martha Tilaaar, four sons and daughters of a cosmetics company founder Martha Tilaar Group does not show that the high character of the liver. Respect for others, willing to learn and listen to the opinion of the team which incidentally is his subordinate, embedded in Bryan David Emil Tilaar, Pingkan Engelien Tilaar, Wulan Maharani Tilaar, and Kilala Esra Tilaar. Martha Tilaar together with her husband, Prof. Dr. Rudolf Tilaar Alexis Henry, to train the children of an independent character, caring, and concern for others.

The key, says Martha, is the sensitivity and self-trained from an early age. That way children grow and develop into a full figure of respect for others, willing to learn from the younger, and open to the opinions of everyone regardless of age.

Children learn to share since childhood as a way to train their sensibilities, go Martha. Martha applied parenting with her husband must have a mission. In addition to building a positive personal character, sensitivity inculcated in the child prepared for the future is ready to lead the company that pioneered Martha's family since 1970. "By having a high sensitivity, they will become leaders who are better able to appreciate other people and not arbitrarily," said the eldest of three siblings.

Martha Tilaar Leadership Group which will be followed by her children, also not given easily. Independence built since the small child who continues to be nurtured as an adult. Martha said, her sons and daughters who are involved in the family beauty business is starting role from the lower level. "The children involved in the company from a management trainee level," said the woman who once worked as primary school teachers and lecturers. By doing so, continued Martha, the kids will have a great sense of belonging to the company and interested in continuing the family business.

In the dictionary parenting Martha, independence and sensitivity to be qualified to prepare a stock figure of the leader. Although the opportunity to become a leader is in sight, the character of this leadership still needs to be prepared early. As Martha and her husband are preparing Wulan as Director Martha Tilaar Group, Bryan as Director of PT Martina Berto, Kilala as Deputy Marketing Director of PT Martina Berto, and Pingkan as Manager of PT Martha Beauty School Beauty Gallery.

"Looking for work is currently difficult, if there is a work of children just need to continue it," said Martha simple.

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