Never Bored Bring Love to Children

Written By Luthfie fadhillah on Saturday, March 12, 2011 | 3:26 AM

Psychiatrists from Angsamerah clinic, dr Eka Viora, SpKJ, explaining that love should be expressed in words but also with an attitude. Meaningful expression of love from their parents wrath, because the child will feel loved. The impact is also not only be felt when a child is growing. Habits express and receive love will form the children become individuals who are more sensitive to others and the environment. Included also in the future of children a family.

"The man (adult) that is not easy to express love because he did not have a model that is remembered as a child. So look again at how a man raised as a child. If since childhood, the child does not receive an expression of love from his parents, he will grow into a personal difficult to express love. Parents who are flooding the child with words of love into learning for children to express love, "said Dr. Eka the talk entitled" Expressing Love in Couples and Children "held Compass Female and clinics in Supermal Angsamerah Karawaci , Sunday (2/13/2011) ago.

In addition to words of love like saying "I love you, kid" or "I love you, kid" you can express love in many ways. Dr Eka share how:

1. Always give praise
There is no limit to give a compliment. Praising children constantly not to have negative impacts for children. According to Dr. Eka, parents usually stingy praise the child because they think kids do something that according to ordinary parents, and children have become liabilities. Parents more often criticized, blamed when children do not comply with parental wishes. So, give praise as often as possible to the child, said Dr. Eka.

2. Do a special activity together every day
Create a little of your valuable time, every day, to do special activities with the children. Like the play, listen to your favorite music, favorite television programs children watch, or to cuddle under a warm blanket and cozy.

3. Create a message of love
Make a note contains a declaration of love for the child or message of love. For example by writing the phrase "Mama love you", put the letter magnets on the refrigerator door bearing similar messages, heart-shaped pillow to award child, or make a cake with a heart-shaped pan that read "I Love You".

4. Fill your child kegemari
Expressing love can also be done by meeting the child's favorite. Make a child's favorite dishes, read a favorite book or fairy tale.

5. Give a kiss
Another way of expressing love to the child is with a simple action, kissing her. Give kisses to the kids more often.

6. Give a hug
Hugs and with folded arms of children with a warm, stroking her hair or rub her feet.

7. Give something special
Nothing wrong with giving something special to the children that are out of habit. The form did not have to be good. For example, allow children to watch television longer than usual.

8. Special attention
If a child has a brother or sister, give special attention to him or full for a while.

9. Your Applause meaningful
Give a hand clap bookmark your appreciation to the children when children do something well or according to your wishes.

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